Resistance as positive evidence

A different way for thinking about rejection

When we encounter Resistance, we might get discouraged conclude that our idea or project is being rejected and a failure. We interpret Resistance as negative evidence.

But what if we counted Resistance as positive evidence?

Resistance is evidence that our idea just might stick…

Resistance is evidence that our art isn’t for everyone…

Resistance is evidence that we haven’t reached enough people yet…

Resistance is evidence that you shipped and got work out into the world…

Resistance is evidence that difficult people will always exist and show up in any area where you show up…

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